About Love and Breakups
Welcome to Love and Breakups — a space for when love hurts, heartbreak lingers, and healing is messy. You are not alone here.
My Story: The Heart Behind the Blog
I’m A. Zada. By day, I’m a computer professional, navigating deadlines, career pressures, and a constant hustle that often made my own relationships complicated — and sometimes left me feeling like the fool. Over 25 years, I’ve lived through the dizzying highs, the devastating lows, and all the messy in-betweens of love.
This blog is born from that real, lived experience. You won’t find textbook theories or empty clichés here. Instead, we explore love’s raw and complicated side with honesty, empathy, and practical guidance for relationship recovery, emotional abuse recovery, and heartbreak healing.
Our Mission: Feel Everything. Heal Your Way.
We don’t believe in “just moving on.” Our mission is simple: hold space for your emotions without judgment.
“Feel everything. Process it fully. Take your time. Your feelings are valid, and healing is yours to own.”
Whether you’re healing from your first heartbreak or rebuilding after a decades-long relationship, this is your sanctuary.
What You’ll Find Here
Raw Stories
Unfiltered, real-life experiences — the kind you might hesitate to admit even to yourself.
Survival Guides
Practical, experience-backed advice to cope with heartbreak and rebuild your confidence.
Love Letters
Messages to exes, to yourself, and to the future you haven’t met yet.
Healing Tools
Free journal prompts and templates to guide your self-discovery.
Real Talk
Honest insights without sugar-coating, because true healing requires facing the truth.
This isn’t just about surviving a breakup — it’s about reclaiming yourself.
Lessons from the Front Lines
I share the wisdom I learned the hard way, including:
- Red Flags I Wish I’d Recognized Sooner
- Breaking Free from Toxic Patterns
- Rebuilding Self-Worth after Emotional Abuse
- Series: Lessons from My Worst Relationships
A Important Note & Your Safety
Content Warning: Some posts discuss emotional abuse and toxic relationships.
Disclaimer: I am not a licensed therapist or counselor. My writing comes from personal experience, not professional training. This content is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek help from a qualified professional if you need it.
Let’s Connect
This is more than a blog — it’s a community. Have a question, an idea, or just need to vent? Email me at zadaventures2.0@gmail.com. I read every message.
With love, patience, and a lifetime of emotional bandaids,
— A. Zada, Writer, Computer Professional & Founder, Love and Breakups