About Love and Breakups
Welcome to Love and Breakups — a space for when love hurts, heartbreak lingers, and healing is messy. You are not alone here.
My Story: The Heart Behind the Blog
I’m A. Zada. By day, I work with computers, juggling deadlines, career stress, and a constant hustle. “All of that sometimes made my relationships messy — and yes, I’ve felt like a fool more than once.” Over 25 years, I’ve felt the thrilling highs, the painful lows, and all the messy moments in between when it comes to love.
This blog is born from that real, lived experience. You won’t find boring theories or empty clichés here. Instead, I share the raw, complicated side of love — the fights, heartbreaks, misunderstandings, and “what was I thinking?” moments — with honesty, empathy, and practical tips.
This site is for information and entertainment, a place to laugh, learn, and maybe even cry a little, as we explore relationship recovery, emotional abuse healing, and getting over heartbreak together.
Our Mission: Feel Everything. Heal Your Way.
We don’t believe in “just moving on.” Our mission is simple: hold space for your emotions without judgment.
Feel everything. Process it fully. Take your time. Your feelings are valid, and healing is yours to own.
Whether you’re healing from your first heartbreak or rebuilding after a decades-long relationship, this is your sanctuary.
What You’ll Find Here
Raw Stories
Unfiltered, real-life experiences — the kind you might hesitate to admit even to yourself.
Survival Guides
Practical, experience-backed advice to cope with heartbreak and rebuild your confidence.
Love Letters
Messages to exes, to yourself, and to the future you haven’t met yet.
Healing Tools
Free journal prompts and templates to guide your self-discovery.
Real Talk
Honest insights without sugar-coating, because true healing requires facing the truth.
This isn’t just about surviving a breakup — it’s about reclaiming yourself.
Lessons from the Front Lines
I share the wisdom I learned the hard way, including:
- Red Flags I Wish I’d Recognized Sooner
- Breaking Free from Toxic Patterns
- Rebuilding Self-Worth after Emotional Abuse
- Series: Lessons from My Worst Relationships
An Important Note & Your Safety
A Note for Readers: Some posts discuss unhealthy dynamics and difficult relationships, how to recognize them, and how to take steps to protect yourself. All content is written in a safe, gentle, and supportive way. Nothing here is graphic or intended to be harmful — it’s meant to help, inform, and guide you through healing.
Disclaimer: “I’m not a therapist, and this blog comes from my personal experience. Everything here is for information and a little entertainment — not professional advice. If you’re struggling, please reach out to a qualified professional.”
Let’s Connect
This is more than a blog — it’s a community. Have a question, an idea, or just need to vent? Email me at zadaventures2.0@gmail.com. I read every message.
With love, patience, and a lifetime of emotional bandaids,
— A. Zada, Writer, Computer Professional & Founder, Love and Breakups